They say you’ve truly made it in life when your alma mater invites you back as the guest speaker for their Moving Up Ceremony.
On April 25, 2025, I had the honor of being the guest speaker at my alma mater’s Moving Up Ceremony. I felt incredibly blessed to be invited to such a meaningful event. Honestly, I was hesitant at first. I didn’t see myself as “successful” by society’s standards. I’m simply a joyful writer who also teaches at a university.
When my former teacher reached out, I initially declined. I told her, “I’m not that inspiring.” I was just content with my life—no grand story, just quiet happiness. But she didn’t take no for an answer. She insisted, telling me she believed in me—especially because of the books I’ve written.
Eventually, I said yes. I even booked an HMUA to help me prepare. I thought, “I should look my best—I’ll be meeting parents, students, and old teachers.” (Which did happen!)
At the ceremony, I was warmly welcomed by the school principal and my former mentors. The program ran smoothly. I walked last in the entrance march and was escorted to the stage by the two principals.
That moment stayed with me. It was around 5 PM, the sun gently setting, painting the sky in hues of orange and gold. In front of me were students smiling, excited to receive their diplomas. Their proud parents sat just behind them. The whole atmosphere was vibrant and full of hope.
When it was my turn to speak, I felt a mix of nerves and gratitude. I had my speech printed out, and I delivered it in Filipino, hoping to leave the students with something meaningful.
I used the titles of my books—Paghilom, Pagsibol, and Paglayag—as the framework for my message. I encouraged them to take care of themselves, believe in their abilities, and embrace the journey ahead.
As I stood there, I remembered the day I gave my valedictory speech in high school. The growth from that version of me to who I am today is indescribable.
Life has taken me through many transitions, but through it all, I’ve felt God’s presence. I may not be the kindest or the most successful person out there, but with God, I know I’m capable of doing meaningful things.
I just hope, in my own quiet way, I was able to inspire them—even just a little.
